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                                               Dr. Phil Show
September 15, 2004  


Bridget Marks became pregnant with twin daughters as a result of an affair with a married man. When he found out she was pregnant, she says he wanted her to get an abortion, and once the children were born, he refused to sign an acknowledge-ment of paternity, therefore relinquishing any legal responsibility. She continued her relation-ship with the man after the birth of the girls, knowing he was married.

Bridget says she tried many times to end their relationship, but he always threatened her with taking away the girls. "Over a period of time I discovered that he was reckless and inappropriate with the children and every time I sought to break the relationship off, he would threaten me with taking the children away," she tells Dr. Phil. She finally broke up with him, and he was allowed visitation with the girls.

After sexual abuse allegations by Bridget, the father filed for custody of the girls, and the drawn-out custody battle ensued. The court determined that Bridget lied about the molestation, and therefore they gave custody of the children to the father. On June 1, 2004, Bridget was devastated to hand over her 4-year-old daughters to their father.

Bridget defends her molestation accusations. "I did not lie. I was a fit mother. I am a fit mother whose children came home with stories," Bridget tells Dr. Phil. "I took them to professionals to investigate whether or not what they said was true. I was given an affidavit by an M.D., a child psychiatrist from Columbia University saying that my daughters had been inappropriately touched, or that she thought that there was about a 60-70 percent chance that they had been touched. She gave me an affidavit to go to the court and to tell the court that the father should only have the strictest access to the children under court supervision."

Dr. Phil notes that a court appointed psychiatrist did an evaluation and determined that she had coached the children.

"He did not examine the children after the second allegation, so he basically, without even examining the children or asking them any questions, determined that it was false," Bridget explains to Dr. Phil.

Dr. Phil explains that when Bridget visits with her girls now, it costs at least $700 a day, because the court says that they have to be fully supervised visits. There have to be monitors in the room so she doesn't coach her children to say something.

Dr. Phil makes clear that the show tried to contact the father of the girls, and there has been no response from him.

Bridget says that she will never stop fighting for her daughters. "I will fight until my last breath," she tells Dr. Phil.

Dr. Phil introduces Dean Tong and Kathie Mathis, two individuals who are helping Bridget fight her custody battle. Dean is an author and a consultant on contested custody abuse cases, and has been working for 20 years on these types of cases. He says that he has seen a lot of errors in this case. "We believe that this is a case of bad science producing bad law."

Dr. Kathie Mathis is a psychologist who works with mothers who are in a similar position to Bridget and their children. She has helped Bridget write an affidavit stating the impact of what's taken place.

Dr. Phil mentions that Bridget has written a romantic thriller exploring love, loss, deception and redemption called September. "I wrote it as an outlet for all of my pain and stress and frustration," she explains. "I will fight anywhere I have to go to get my girls back."

                              Playboy Mom's 9/11 Cash Cow

By Richard Johnson
Sep 13, 2004

Bridget Marks, the former Playboy model who lost custody of her twin daughters earlier this year in a bitter court case, has written a post-9/11 potboiler called "September" so she can pay her lawyers.

"I wrote the book for the girls, during the trial, and it incorporates many of the things I went through. These were my darkest moments," Marks told PAGE SIX. "My poor children. I just feel so sorry for them."

The twins, Amber and Scarlett, celebrated their fifth birthday on Wednesday with their mother, who was allowed unsupervised visitation for the first time since their father, gambling tycoon John Aylsworth, got custody in June.

The court found that Marks had coached the twins to lie that Aylsworth had molested them and that she was poisoning the youngsters' relationship with their father.

He's a better custodian for our kids?" Marks fumed. "Judge Arlene D. Goldberg should be tarred and feathered. She's not fit to sit in traffic court."

Marks will appear Wednesday on the "Dr. Phil" TV show to talk about both the novel and her personal ordeal.

"It's a romantic thriller about a beautiful New York socialite who loses her son on 9/11," she said. "She risks everything and travels the world to find out if the greatest love of her life was one of the masterminds behind the attack. It's a love story that spans 30 years and three continents."

Newscaster Linda Ellerbee liked the book so much she gave it a blurb: " 'September' is more than a novel. It's a first-rate lesson in the survival of love. No small thing, that."

Marks is showing the same grit as her protagonist in pursuing her case in the Appellate Division. She also plans to sue several court-appointed "experts" —— psychiatrists, social workers and guardians —— over their testimony.

"There is an epidemic in Family Court of good mothers losing custody of their children," Marks told us. "The court system is embarrassed.

"I'm thinking of running for the City Council on the Upper East Side," she added. "If there's any way I can help other women and children, I will do it."

                            Playboy Mom's 9/11 Cash Cow

By Richard Johnson
Sep 13, 2004

Bridget Marks, the former Playboy model who lost custody of her twin daughters earlier this year in a bitter court case, has written a post-9/11 potboiler called "September" so she can pay her lawyers.

"I wrote the book for the girls, during the trial, and it incorporates many of the things I went through. These were my darkest moments," Marks told PAGE SIX. "My poor children. I just feel so sorry for them."

The twins, Amber and Scarlett, celebrated their fifth birthday on Wednesday with their mother, who was allowed unsupervised visitation for the first time since their father, gambling tycoon John Aylsworth, got custody in June.

The court found that Marks had coached the twins to lie that Aylsworth had molested them and that she was poisoning the youngsters' relationship with their father.

He's a better custodian for our kids?" Marks fumed. "Judge Arlene D. Goldberg should be tarred and feathered. She's not fit to sit in traffic court."

Marks will appear Wednesday on the "Dr. Phil" TV show to talk about both the novel and her personal ordeal.

"It's a romantic thriller about a beautiful New York socialite who loses her son on 9/11," she said. "She risks everything and travels the world to find out if the greatest love of her life was one of the masterminds behind the attack. It's a love story that spans 30 years and three continents."

Newscaster Linda Ellerbee liked the book so much she gave it a blurb: " 'September' is more than a novel. It's a first-rate lesson in the survival of love. No small thing, that."

Marks is showing the same grit as her protagonist in pursuing her case in the Appellate Division. She also plans to sue several court-appointed "experts" —— psychiatrists, social workers and guardians —— over their testimony.

"There is an epidemic in Family Court of good mothers losing custody of their children," Marks told us. "The court system is embarrassed.

"I'm thinking of running for the City Council on the Upper East Side," she added. "If there's any way I can help other women and children, I will do it."

                                          Without Minders

By Bob Port
New York Daily News
August 27th, 2004

The wealthy father of love twins Amber and Scarlet Aylsworth waved a flag of truce yesterday, agreeing to drop demands that his ex-mistress be supervised while visiting their daughters.

Manhattan Family Court Judge Arlene Goldberg agreed.

That clears the way for Bridget Marks to spend time alone with the 4-year-old girls for the first time in months.

Marks raised the twins from birth but lost custody when Goldberg ruled the former Playboy model had falsely accused the father, John Aylsworth, 54, of sexually abusing the girls.

"Today was a victory," said Marks, 38, who has lost round after round in the bitter custody fight. She paid $17,000 this summer to social workers to monitor some 500 hours of visits and numerous phone calls to the kids.

"I won't give up until I have my girls back," she added.

A psychiatrist seeing the twins has advised that "supervision is harmful for the children and disruptive," according to their court-appointed lawyer.

On June 1, Marks handed over the identical twins to Aylsworth, head of President Casinos Inc., in a heart-wrenching spectacle recorded by news cameras.

Goldberg ruled that Marks' "unbridled anger" toward the married tycoon was alienating the children from their dad. The judge made Aylsworth and his wife move to New York.

Since then, Marks, who has tried acting and writing romance novels, has appeared on CNN's "Larry King Live" and ABC's "Primetime Live" to air unrelenting criticism of New York's child custody system.

Now, TV's Dr. Phil McGraw is on the case. Marks taped a segment with the CBS pop psychologist that is tentatively set to air Sept. 15. In court, various parties said McGraw has been telephoning them.

"There's definitely going to be some followup," a show spokesman said yesterday. "One of the things that Dr. Phil prides himself on is extensive aftercare for folks who are on the show."

Twins' Mom Loses Again

Bridget Marks

Bridget Marks, the mom who lost her 4-year-old twins to their casino executive father, begged a judge yesterday to stop making her pay thousands of dollars to visit her daughters.

But Manhattan Family Court Judge Arlene Goldberg said no.

"It's not time yet," the judge said, ruling that paid social workers, at $25 an hour around the clock, must continue.

"We are looking out for the best interests of the children," Goldberg said.

The social workers are there to assure Marks never bad-mouths John Aylsworth, president and chief operating officer of President Casinos Inc., based in St. Louis.

Aylsworth fathered the identical twin girls, Amber and Scarlet, while he was having an affair with Marks.

Goldberg awarded Aylsworth custody in May, ruling that because Marks was alienating the twins against their father, they would be better off living with him.

Since then, Marks has spent $9,000 for phone calls and three visits totaling 12 days with her daughters, whom she reared alone from birth at her upper East Side apartment.

"She doesn't have the resources to pay for ongoing supervision," Michael Joseph, her attorney, protested. The children are in therapy and "we believe it is not necessary," he said.

Aylsworth, who appeared in court with his wife yesterday, objected. His attorney, Patricia Grant, said that if money is a problem, Marks could visit her girls free at one of the city welfare agencies set up to supervise visitation.

Molly Murphy of Lawyers for Children, the public-interest law firm appointed to represent the 4-year-olds, also objected. "Now is not the time," Murphy said. "It's very early."

Lawyers for Children has argued that supervision is in the best interests of Amber and Scarlet.

Marks "has been very cooperative," said Richard Spitzer, the director of Comprehensive Family Services, the firm supplying live-in social workers to accompany the twins. "There is room for improvement," he added.

Spitzer disclosed that the twins have a problem with "hysterical screaming" during "transitions" - when the time comes to return to their father.

In fact, the twins are repeatedly refusing to leave their mom. Scarlet, for example, once forced Spitzer physically to carry her, crying and screaming down Third Ave., away from the building that was once home.

The twins also have refused to answer questions from a new psychiatrist appointed by the court to help them.

"I am saying exactly what the psychiatrist told me to say," Marks said yesterday. "I say I love you and I'll miss you and tell them when I'll see them again."

"The kids," she said outside court, "just plain don't want to go back there."

 

Their Sunday Best
Mom & Twins Reunite for Mass, Joined by a Big-bucks Chaperon

Bridget Marks is flanked by her twin 4-year-old daughters, Scarlet (l.) and Amber, after they all attended Sunday Mass.

Any Sunday she can take her twin daughters to Mass is precious to Bridget Marks.

The embattled Manhattan mom who has been fighting for custody of 4-year-old Scarlet and Amber got a now-rare opportunity to foster her daughters' faith yesterday morning at St. John the Martyr on the upper East Side.

Marks paid little mind to the press throng, there to cover the ouster of her longtime priest - and personal favorite - Msgr. John Woolsey. Instead, she focused on the joy of having her preschoolers snuggled close on either side of her in the pew, reading with her from the hymnbook and beaming as she caressed their hair.

"I am very happy to be with them, no matter what the circumstances," Marks, 38, later told the Daily News, her voice choked with emotion. "[But] It's very, very important for any people in crisis to have their faith."

Marks said she's terrified the girls have been blocked from their faith since she lost custody of them to their casino tycoon dad, John Aylsworth, on June 1.

The one-time Playboy model also lives under constant fear the courts could strip away her tenuous visitation rights - which could be cut off if she lets slip a single nasty word about Aylsworth, or discloses the girls' whereabouts to the media.

So it was with trepidation that Marks told The News she still has no idea how often her daughters will be able to accompany her to Mass in the future.

She said she could not disclose what the rest of the girls' summer will hold - whether they will go to California with their father or stay with her.

But after spending the hour-long Mass doting on her daughters, who clambered onto her lap and showered her with hugs and kisses as a court-mandated $1,000-per-day social worker looked on, Marks said she could not bear the thought of being without them. "They don't even like me to leave the apartment," Marks wept. "It's just a sad thing."

Marks had reared the twins - the result of an affair with the married Aylsworth - since birth. But the 54-year-old millionaire was awarded custody after a judge found Marks had bad-mouthed him to the girls.

For now, Marks is hoping the judge will allow her more time with her daughters, so that she can bring them to church for First Communion classes. Marks and the girls lit a trio of red prayer candles at Mass' end. "Just to bring us back together permanently, it's their greatest wish," Marks said.

(Msgr. John Woolsey, is under investigation for $1million in missing church funds, of St. John the Martyr. Woolsey, stepped down last week after an audit by the Archdiocese of New York found about $1 million in church funds went missing during his eight years at St. John's. Rev. Joseph Baker was conducting the services.)


 

Twins' Trip Hinges On Shrink Rap

A court-appointed psychiatrist had her first meeting yesterday with the twin daughters of Bridget Marks while a judge decides whether to permit the 4-year-olds to vacation with their father in California.

Marks said after a court hearing in Manhattan that the unidentified psychiatrist told the court "it is not a good idea" for the twins to leave New York.

Lawyers for Marks, 38, a former Playboy model and the twins' father, casino millionaire John Aylsworth, 54, clashed in court over several issues.

Family Court Judge Arlene Goldberg awarded custody of the girls, Amber and Scarlet, to Aylsworth on June 1. Goldberg and several court-appointed experts said Marks had alienated the girls against Aylsworth and falsely accused him of sexually molesting them.

Marks is appealing.

Aylsworth, who is under court order to move to New York, has agreed to enroll the girls in a Manhattan preschool in September. But he has asked the court for vacation time in California, where he and his wife live.

Marks lawyer Michael Joseph challenged Goldberg's order that the mother's contacts with the children be supervised by social workers at a cost of up to $5,000 a week.

But Goldberg rejected the suggestion that the father should pay for the supervision. "How is it his responsibility to pay when it's her wrongdoing that requires it," Goldberg snapped.

Aylsworth attorney Patricia Grant said Marks had assets of $266,790 and has a fiance picking up her rent and legal fees.
 

OK Twins' California Summer

It's going to be a long, lonely summer for Bridget Marks, whose twin daughters will go back to California with their father next week, under a Family Court judge's ruling yesterday.

Marks' attorneys argued the 4-year-old girls should remain in Manhattan, to permit frequent visits with their mother, who raised them from birth.

But Judge Arlene Goldberg said the girls could go back to the West Coast with their father, wealthy casino tycoon John Aylsworth.

Goldberg gave a little something to both sides in the custody battle, however, stipulating the twins could not stay away from Manhattan and their mother as "long as Mr. Aylsworth wants."

And Goldberg hinted that the restrictions on Marks' visits with her kids - now supervised 24 hours a day by social workers - could end during the next six months.

Marks has to pay the social workers $5,000 a week.

The continuing custody battle pits Marks, 38, a former Playboy magazine model, against Aylsworth, 54, a married grandfather with whom she had an affair.

Goldberg awarded custody of the girls, Amber and Scarlet, to Aylsworth on June 1. Goldberg and several court-appointed experts said Marks had alienated the girls against Aylsworth and falsely accused him of sexually molesting them.

Marks plans to appeal Goldberg's custody decision in the Appellate Division of Manhattan Supreme Court.

She lost a round in that battle yesterday. Appellate Justice John Burke denied her request for an emergency stay of Goldberg's custody ruling pending the appeal.
 

Interview With Bridget Marks on Larry King
 

Aired on CNN
July 5, 2004 - 21:00   ET

To read transcript of interview click here.

 

See Twins - for 5g!

By Bob Port
New York Daily News
July 1, 2004

It looks like Manhattan mom Bridget Marks finally will get to see her little girls - but it's gonna cost her, big-time.

The feisty mom, who lost custody of her 4-year-old twins to casino tycoon John Aylsworth, can have home visits, a judge said yesterday, but only if she shells out $5,000 a week for court-appointed social workers to watch her every move.

Based on the number of planned visits, that could mean as much as $50,000 a year.

Manhattan Family Court Judge Arlene Goldberg also told Marks that if she says anything bad about her daughters' father - an ex-lover she despises - the social worker has the authority to terminate the visit on the spot.

"It's obviously punitive," said Marks, whose custody battle will be the subject of a report on ABC's "PrimeTime Thursday" program tonight.

Goldberg approved the visitation rules, ending weeks of uncertainty for Marks, who lost her children on June 1 after the judge granted custody to Aylsworth.

Yesterday, Goldberg also ordered Marks not to allow the news media access to her twins for the next year or reveal their "precise whereabouts."

The judge said the children will be harmed by reporters interviewing them or photographers taking their picture. "I can't have that," she declared.

"My job is to protect these children," Goldberg said. "That's what I intend to do."

Goldberg awarded Aylsworth custody, ruling that the trauma of taking the girls from their life-long home with Marks was better than letting Marks further alienate the girls from their father.

Marks, a former Playboy model, went public, lambasting the court, its overpriced forensic psychiatrist and what she views as gross injustice in the state's custody system.

Yesterday, she was stunned again at the price tag of visitation. She said Comprehensive Family Services, the firm appointed to supervise her, has warned her to expect costs of $4,500 to $5,000 per week.

"It's like a poll tax and it basically is like terminating my parental rights," Marks said. "As long as I've agreed not to let the children be interviewed, I don't see why I need supervised visitation."

The social workers must accompany her and the girls everywhere - even the bathroom - and are preparing a script for things she should say, Marks said. "It's just bizarre," she said, "and completely insane."

Judge Balks Bridget's Twin Hopes
When Will She See Her Girls?

New York Daily News
June 28, 2004

Bridget Marks has no idea when she will see her 4-year-old
twin daughters again.

A month after transferring custody of little Amber and Scarlet to their millionaire dad and his wife, Manhattan Family Court Judge Arlene Goldberg stunned Marks this week by indicating she might let the twins stay at their dad's Malibu, Calif., estate all summer.

Then again, she might not.

The judge might allow the children to stay overnight at their mother's home for a visit.                                                          Bridget Marks hugs
                                                                                                                                her twins, 4-year-old

Then again, she might not.                                                         twins Amber (r.) and
                                                                                               
Scarlet, shortly
And, despite repeated pleas from Marks, Goldberg has yet      
before they left her to
to settle how many thousands of dollars the mom must pay
          go live with their 
court-appointed supervisors when she does visit her kids.        
 father.

The judge also is not responding to new questions about whether the girls will be allowed to attend Catholic church services or Sunday school.

"I miss them so much," Marks said Friday, as she began to cry. "I miss them more than I ever imagined I could."

All month, Marks has been required to pay court-appointed social workers to monitor daily phone calls with her kids.

"They keep asking me, 'Mommy, when are we coming home?' - and I'm not allowed to say anything," she said. "It's just not fair."

In May, Goldberg ordered the twins given to their father, John Aylsworth, president of President Casinos Inc., on the condition he move within 40 miles of Marks' upper East Side home. But when he will make the move remains unclear.

Marks, a former Playboy model, began an affair with Aylsworth in 1998. She became pregnant, resisted pressure from Aylsworth and his wife to have an abortion, then reared the twins alone.

Goldberg ruled that because Marks, 38, was denigrating Aylsworth, the children would be better off living with their 54-year-old father.

Aylsworth, the judge's May order declared, could take the girls anywhere on vacation for a "consecutive four-week period" beginning June 1. "The children shall then have supervised visitation time with the mother for a one-week period," she ruled.

But for weeks, Goldberg, who is the subject of an abuse-of-judicial-authority complaint by Marks to the state Commission on Judicial Conduct, has failed to give her lawyers guidelines for how the distraught mom can visit her daughters.

"It's becoming surreal," said Tom Shanahan, Marks' attorney. "It's out of control."

Shanahan said he expects Goldberg to issue a more detailed order today. Aylsworth's attorney did not respond to a call seeking comment.

Although courtrooms in Family Court are supposed to be open to the public, and despite public interest in the case, Goldberg has begun holding hearings by telephone with lawyers - making it impossible for the public to hear what she says or observe what the elected judge does.

Before leaving their mother, Amber and Scarlet Aylsworth had attended Mass at a Catholic church most Sundays with Marks.

Aylsworth, Marks contends, is refusing to allow them to continue going to church. Marks had hoped to have her daughters attend Sunday school to prepare them for their First Communion in two years.

"Now, John even wants to take Jesus away from them," Marks said.

 

Courts See Moms as Guilty till Proven Innocent

By Amy Neustein and Michael Lesher
New York Daily News
June 20, 2004

Bridget Marks' tearful farewell to her 4-year-old twins after a Manhattan Family Court judge ordered them into the custody of a father they accused of touching their private parts is a scene reenacted in custody trials across the country, in which mothers bring good-faith allegations of sexual abuse.

All too often, young children are taken from the only home they have ever known, not because their mother has been found unfit, but because she was concerned about improper sexual contact between her children and their father.

Judges in New York and other states have adopted a bizarre rule that a mother alleging sex abuse in a custody dispute is guilty until proved innocent: If her abuse charge is not supported by overwhelming evidence, she will lose custody for making an accusation that "poisons" the relationship between father and child.

In fact, as we are seeing in the Marks case, she can end up being doubly penalized: After she loses custody, the accused abuser can actually hit her up for child support.

Marks' suspicions were not without support. A baby-sitter reported that the children told her their father had "touched their peepee." A police investigator was concerned enough about the charges to recommend that a prominent forensic psychologist interview the children (an interview that was never allowed to take place). Another psychologist recommended strict supervision for the father's visits with the girls.

Judge Arlene Goldberg held the mother to a Kafkaesque standard: While rejecting evidence that explained the mother's suspicions, the judge required Marks to prove she would foster a "loving" relationship between the man accused of abuse and the children she was desperately trying to protect.

Adding insult to injury for Marks, supervisors appointed by the court actually left the father alone with the children on several critical occasions, court papers show.

What happened to Marks has happened to mothers across the country. We have studied two decades' worth of custody litigation, and we have found that mothers who raise allegations of sexual abuse against the children's fathers are likely to be punished with the loss of custody even when there is no proof that the abuse charges were fabricated or that they did anything to harm their children's welfare.

Courts focus instead on the supposed evil of making a charge that, by its very nature, is extremely difficult to prove. Then, with the fathers presumed innocent, the mothers bear the burden of proving that their intentions were good.

If they fail, they end up like Marks, who cannot even speak to her children without professional supervision but who now may have to pay child support to their rich father.

Neustein and Lesher are authors of "From Madness to Mutiny: Why Are Mothers Running from the Family Court?" due out in spring 2005.

                
Give Press Boot - Twins' Daddy
 


 

Lawyers for John Aylsworth and his twin love children asked a judge to throw the press out of court yesterday, saying the media attention to his custody battle was frightening the 4-year-olds.

Then, Aylsworth, connected by phone to a court loudspeaker, began to cry.

He recalled the scene June 1 when news cameras surrounded the girls on a Manhattan streetcorner as he took them from their sobbing mother, his ex-mistress.

"The girls bring up all the time that they were scared," the riverboat casino exec said, his voice cracking. "They were nervous. Why were all these people in their face?"

"It's just very sad to see all the pain they have from that experience," he said, crying.

Both Aylsworth's attorney and Lawyers for Children Inc., a taxpayer-financed agency appointed to represent the twins, urged Manhattan Family Court Judge Arlene Goldberg to eject reporters from the courtroom.

It would be "in the best interests of the children," they said.

Goldberg declined, but invited the lawyers to file written requests to be argued later with news media attorneys.

Yesterday's hearing then degenerated into an argument over supervised visitation for the twins' mom, Bridget Marks, 38, the upper East Side socialite who gave birth to the girls during an affair with the married Aylsworth.

In May, Goldberg awarded custody of the girls to Aylsworth, 54, and his wife on the grounds that Marks had harmed the children's relationship with their father and made false accusations that he sexually abused them.

The identical twins, Amber and Scarlet, are with their father in California on a four-week vacation. They return for a one-week visit with mom in early July.

Both Aylsworth's lawyer and Lawyers for Children said Marks should have 24-hour supervision if the judge allows the girls to sleep at their mom's home, where Marks reared them alone from birth.
 

Twins' Daddy Twists Knife

By Bob Port
New York Daily News
June 17, 2004

He got her kids, and now he wants her money, too.

The big-bucks corporate exec who stunned New Yorkers by taking 4-year-old twins away from his ex-mistress sued her yesterday for child support.

John Aylsworth makes $521,000 a year as president of riverboat casinos in Missouri and Mississippi.

Bridget Marks, 38, the former Playboy model who lost legal custody of her daughters to Aylsworth last month and does not have a job, was nearly speechless. "I just don't understand," she said. "It's just too ridiculous."

"It's like pulling the wings off a fly," said Raoul Felder, the city's dean of divorce law, who is not involved in the case. "This shows a kind of arrogance, to even attempt something like that."

Aylsworth's attorney was unavailable for comment. A hearing in the bizarre custody drama is scheduled in Manhattan Family Court today.

Aylsworth, 54, a married man for 34 years, began an affair with Marks in 1998 that ended bitterly in 2002. He had paid Marks $6,000 a month after Amber and Scarlet were born in September 1999. He stopped the payments in late 2002, but in early 2003 a court ordered him to fork over $4,200 a month.

On May 21, Manhattan Judge Arlene Goldberg awarded custody to Aylsworth and his wife on the grounds that Marks alienated the girls against their father and made false accusations that he sexually abused them.

Under New York law, Aylsworth may win child support from Marks, but probably not much. Using a legal formula, a judge would start with $80,000 or more as an annual child-rearing cost, then divide that amount in proportion to each parent's income. Marks then would owe a fraction of that amount.

With no job and legal bills of nearly $800,000, Marks relies on her mother, fiancéé and others for help. She got a $25,000 book advance this year for a romance novel but owes an editor one-third of that and an agent 10% to 15%.

Still, the law would let a judge "impute" an income figure for Marks based on odd sources of cash. The judge could also calculate extra costs for the custodial parent, such as private school and medical care - and even baby-sitters to help Aylsworth's wife, who cares for her cheating husband's love twins.

Hal Mayerson, co-chairman of the state Bar Association's custody law committee, called the child-support suit "nothing more than harassment."

"This is the dumbest thing this guy could do, because he's now opened his finances to Bridget Marks," Mayerson said. "I don't understand why this was done other than to to just drive her crazy."

                            Fed Judge Turns Twins' Ma Away

 

Bridget Marks lost another round yesterday in her custody fight for her twin daughters and now probably will not get to see them until the end of the month.

A federal judge rejected her request for the girls to be temporarily returned to her, pending her appeal of a Family Court decision giving their father full custody.

So the 4-year-old twins, Amber and Scarlet, will stay with their father, John Aylsworth, who lives in an estate in Malibu, Calif. Marks lives on the upper East Side.

"This court is not a Family Court," said Manhattan Federal Court Judge George Daniels, after hearing extensive arguments from both sides.

Marks was grim but composed, as Daniels told her to fight it out in the appellate division of state court. "That is the appropriate place," he said.

But he added that Marks is entitled to more explanation of the Family Court ruling and he invited her to come back to federal court if "there is an unreasonable delay" in getting that information. Marks had no comment when she left the courtroom to face a phalanx of reporters.

Her attorney, Thomas Shanahan, said, "This is not going away, not by a long shot." Appeals will continue, Shanahan promised, with the next stop, at the state's appeals court.

Aylsworth, a 54-year-old casino president, fathered the twins during an extramarital affair with Marks, 38, a former Playboy model and actress.

(To read the complaint in the federal case go to
http://www.shanahanlaw.com/marks/Marks.VerifiedComplaint.pdf  

Diane Sawyer interview with Bridget Marks and attorney Thomas Shanahan
http://www.shanahanlaw.com/marks/shanahan.mov )


Court Blow to 'Molest' Accuser

By Heidi Singer
New York Post
June 8, 2004

A federal judge yesterday refused to step into the bitter custody battle between a former Playboy model and the casino mogul ex-lover she wrongly tried to paint as a child molester.

Lawyers for Bridget Marks, the mother of the 4-year-old twin girls, argued she lost custody of the girls for no good reason last month because the judge relied on court-appointed experts —— and the current system of court-appointed experts is corrupt, with assignments handed out to the politically connected, not the most qualified.

But federal Judge George Daniels refused to accept the case, saying the appeals court now handling it is capable of addressing her concerns, as long as the process is handled in a timely manner.

Last week, the children were taken from their mother by court order. Judge Arlene Goldberg gave custody to casino mogul John Aylsworth, 54, and longtime wife Karen, because she found Marks was poisoning the girls' relationship with their father by coaching them to say he had molested them.

Marks can't appeal the Family Court decision until July 5.

A disappointed Marks left federal court yesterday stone-faced and silent.

 

                                Mom's Pain Spelled Out

New York Daily News
June 6, 2004
 

An aching heart and a photo of her twins are constant companions of Bridget Marks.

Bridget Marks last saw her daughters five days ago, when their wealthy father, Marks' ex-lover, took custody under a Manhattan Family Court parental alienation order.

She's talked with them on the phone, but only by paying a $75-per-hour court-appointed social worker to monitor her every word. If Marks cries or says anything to trigger her children's emotions over losing her, the call will be cut off, by order of Manhattan Judge Arlene Goldberg.

The Daily News invited Marks, 38, to write an open letter to her 4-year-old twin girls, Amber and Scarlet - and she did. "Thank you, thank you so much," she said, as she began to cry. "Thank God for the First Amendment."

"Remember," she writes to her daughters, "don't go to the swimming pool alone," which suggests they may be at the Malibu, Calif., estate of their father, casino executive John Aylsworth, 54, and his wife of 34 years, Karen, 53. Marks won't say, in fact, where they are.

"They're frightened and they miss me," Marks lamented Friday, after her second phone call to Amber and Scarlet. "I can hear it in their voices."

The letter

Dear Amberinna and Scarlettina,

Mommy loves you so much and misses you. You are my heartbeats you know. I am like half a pair of scissors since they cut me out of your lives.

You are my warrior princesses and you must be strong and know that God is watching over you while we are apart. Remember to say your prayers and don't be afraid because when I can't be with you, God is there to protect you.

Mommy is making sure Kiki and Gem are getting fed the little treats you always gave them. Fay Fay is keeping Mommy company and allyour friends, especially Sophia, say "hi" and hope you'll be back soon.

Grandma says you'll be back in time to pick the tomatoes you planted last weekend in her garden.

Remember, don't go to the swimming pool alone and always wear water wings and eat your vegetables.

Hoping to hold you both in my arms again soonest!

Love, kisses and hugs,

Meema
 

Love-Twin Dad Tied to Iffy Land Deal

 

June 6, 2004
 
 
John Aylsworth

John Aylsworth, the fat-cat father who took his love twins from their mother this week, was the architect of an inflated land deal that funneled $40.5 million to the chairman of his casino business, according to a new federal court report.

The big losers were stockholders and bondholders with a stake in Aylsworth's publicly traded company, St. Louis-based President Casinos Inc.

The big winner was Aylsworth's boss, the casino company's chairman and its biggest stockholder, John Connelly.

Connelly is known in New York City for operating a fleet of dinner-cruise ships during the 1980s. He later became an investor in the parent company of the Circle Line.

In 2002, President Casinos, which runs a riverboat gambling vessel in St. Louis, filed for protection from creditors in federal bankruptcy court in Missouri. The judge in the case appointed an examiner to investigate Connelly and Aylsworth.

"There is evidence to support claims ... for breach of fiduciary duty against John Connelly, John Aylsworth" and others, the examiner, David Sosne, said in his report.

That evidence comes from a 1997 real estate deal arranged by Aylsworth, the chief operating officer of President.

At the time, Connelly personally needed cash, the examiner found. Aylsworth, paid more than $680,000 a year as Connelly's employee, arranged at his boss' request for President Casinos to buy Connelly's aging, money-losing Broadwater Resort in Biloxi, Miss.

Connelly got $40.5 million for the real estate - $30.5 million in cash and a $10 million stake in an entity set up to run it. Aylsworth, Connelly's grandson, and a past Circle Line associate - all appointed company directors by Connelly - voted to okay the deal.

Aylsworth arranged bond financing for the purchase from Lehman Brothers with what amounted to annual interest costs of 17%.

Sosne labeled Aylsworth's actions a "breach of the duty of care." He called Connelly's actions "self-dealing" and suggested further investigation would likely prove the deal was worth far less than $40.5 million.

Legal time limits on lawsuits probably make it impossible for creditors to sue Aylsworth or Connelly for damages, the examiner said. But a 1998 stockholder lawsuit against Aylsworth and Connelly in Delaware could proceed when the Missouri bankruptcy case finishes.

"We're pleased that the examiner has finished his work," President Casino spokesman Jon Sloane said in a statement this week. "Based on the report and all the circumstances surrounding it, we believe that no further action will be taken."

On Tuesday, Aylsworth took custody of 4-year-old girls he fathered in an extramarital affair. A Manhattan Family Court judge ruled the girls would be better off with Aylsworth and his wife than with their mom, Bridget Marks, an actress, novelist and former Playboy model.
 

Bogus Sex Rap Turned Tug-of-love into Twins Nightmare


By Brad Hamilton
New York Post
June 6, 2004

It's the custody battle from hell - and it all began with a shocking allegation of sex abuse on Easter Sunday last year. The epic battle pitting ex-Playboy model Bridget Marks against her former flame, philandering casino mogul John Aylsworth, has left their 4-year-old twins deeply scarred, a Post review of more than 1,000 pages of court documents shows. "They are very anxious about their parent's conflict and need therapy ... ASAP," urged the kids' former psychiatrist, Celia Blumenthal, in one court document. Marks, 38, lost custody surrendered the kids in a public hand-off this past week.


The allegation at the heart of the fight started after blond twins Amber and Scarlett spent Easter last year with their father in New York. They'd gone with him to a small luxury apartment on West 73rd Street he'd bought for his grown daughter Colleen, one of four adult children Aylsworth and his wife Karen had during their 34 years of marriage. But when the girls returned to their home on East 72nd Street, Amber told their longtime babysitter, Pam Soleiman, that her Daddy had "touched her pee-pee" when he took the tot to the bathroom, according to court
records Marks filed.

Marks relayed the charge to city's Administration for Children's Services, and Ehrenfreund was removed as supervisor. Over the next several months, the charge would be investigated by cops, ACS and several experts, including a lead shrink appointed by the court whose methods and ethics have been questioned in this and other cases. The psychiatrist, Stephen Billick and three others would testify that Marks, 38, had coached the kids, prompting Family Court Judge Arlene Goldberg to award custody last month to Aylsworth, 54.

The decision baffled court observers and infuriated Marks. Case documents raise troubling questions about the behavior of Marks, whose allegations at first appeared credible, but also cast doubt about how well the courts handle such charges. It's a concern echoed last week by the state's top judge, Judith Kaye, who announced the creation of a commission to study the role of experts in custody fights following years of criticism that some experts were biased or incompetent.


The twins' situation is a case in point. At the very time that the criminal case was still being investigated by veteran special-victims Detective Julia Collins, a second allegation suddenly cropped up. The new charge followed another supervised visit Aylsworth had with the kids, this time in Central Park last July 12, just three months after the Easter incident. Marks, worried that new supervisor Jule Roberts might not keep proper tabs on the girls, had secretly hired a retired city cop, Luther Barnes, to follow and watch. Her worst fears were realized when Barnes reported back, showing video of Roberts sitting on a rock making cell phone calls while Aylsworth, his wife and the twins disappeared for an hour. Worse, the babysitter again claimed Amber complained that she'd been touched by Aylsworth when he led her to a bathroom in the park. A few days later, Marks took Amber to Cornell Medical Center, where the girl was diagnosed as having vaginitis, an irritation of the genitals.

Blumenthal urged that Goldberg allow only the most restricted contact between the girls and their father, who had sent each toddler an odd gift: a dozen roses for Valentine's Day. It seemed the allegations were plausible. But the case began to unravel, partly because of what one key investigator called Marks' "arrogant" behavior toward those looking into the charges.

"She's alienated herself against everybody in ACS," said the investigator, who spent weeks interviewing the parents, family, friends and shrinks, along with the twins themselves - and asked not to be named in this story. The investigator said the way the kids told how they were allegedly abused - quickly and urgently in the first moments of an interview - indicated they'd been coached. "You walk into the room and they blurt it out," she said. "These kids are really smart, and they know why they're there. They just want to get it over with." In another incident, the twins appeared to enjoy a pleasant day with Aylsworth, only to scream, "You're horrible, Daddy!" as he drove up to return them home, she said. "It seemed like they were saying, 'Oh, s--, We're going back to Mommy," she said. Vaginitis, she added, "just means it itches. It can happen if a little soap gets left on."


A report by the court-appointed law guardian, Molly Murphy, cites numerous interviews with the kids in which Marks or Soleiman apparently put words into their mouths. And it slams Marks for making "evasive, inconsistent" statements. Even so, the investigator couldn't prove the kids were coached. And the system continued to fail.

Records show that the cop in the case, Det. Collins, asked that the twins be evaluated by a Columbia University shrink she hailed as the best abuse expert in the city, to determine once and for all what happened. But the child's court-appointed law guardian, Molly Murphy, refused. Meanwhile, Billick's methods were maddening Marks. Billick, gay and childless, has a history of favoring fathers, her attorney, Thomas Shanahan alleges.

In this case, records show, the shrink expanded his role from evaluating visitation to looking at custody - without the judge telling him to do so, as is required Billick never interviewed the kids' teachers, nannies or parents of kids they played with, and lost tapes of key interviews he conducted. Marks claims he was biased due to a shocking murder-suicide: His brother, William Billick, lawyer for the Motion Pictures Association of America, killed himself and his 18-month-old twins at his Beverly Hills home in 1997 after his wife threatened to leave and take the kids.

"He never should have been on this case," said Shanahan. Billick has run afoul of other litigants, including one Manhattan mother, Devorah Shabtai, who lost custody of her 4-year-old daughter last year based on Billick's testimony that she was paranoid and allowed the girl to chase a rat in the park. The investigator in the Marks case claims Billick "formed an opinion right away" about the sex charges, before doing any evaluations. Billick didn't return calls seeking comment.
He wasn't the only one with biases, Marks alleges. Two social workers who later claimed the kids were never abused flew to California last year, staying with Aylsworth and his family at his beachside mansion in Malibu. Aylsworth had a networth of more than $6 million , as of 1999, and owns three homes, including one in St. Louis, where his riverboat gambling operation filed for bankruptcy.

Love on the Clock
Mom Gets Only 5 Mins. On Phone with Her Torn-away Twin Girls

By William Sherman & Bob Port
New York Daily News
June 4, 2004
 

Bridget Marks, with photo of twins in their empty room, talked to girls yesterday for first time since handover to their father.

Amber and Scarlet Aylsworth, the 4-year-old twins turned over to their millionaire dad, spoke to their mom yesterday for the first time since they were torn from her Tuesday - until dad hung up after five minutes.

"Scarlet said that she missed me and she wanted to sleep near me," said heartbroken Manhattan mom Bridget Marks, 38. "Amber said she missed me and loved me."

The call was arranged with a $75-per-hour social worker monitoring. Under a court order, the twins are on a four-week trip with their 54-year-old father, John Aylsworth, chief operating officer of President Casino Inc.

"I didn't really get to say goodbye to Scarlet," Marks said. "John hung up the phone before I could even say goodbye to Amber."

Marks finally learned her kids' whereabouts yesterday, two days after their emotionally charged transfer to Aylsworth.

"I can't really say where the children are, but wherever the children are, I ask the American public to keep an eye on them and to smile at them and be kind to them," the former Playboy model said.

So went another teary day for Marks, who lost custody of her daughters in one of the city's most high-profile Family Court battles in years.

On May 21, Manhattan Judge Arlene Goldberg awarded custody to Aylsworth and his wife on the grounds that Marks alienated the girls against their father and made false accusations that he sexually abused them.

Aylsworth fathered the twins during an extramarital affair with Marks, who reared their girls alone from birth. When Marks dumped Aylsworth, he sought visitation. When Marks began to bad-mouth Aylsworth, he sought full custody.

Until this week, the twins had only visited their dad for two weeks and five weekends.

Court officials said New York case law forces a judge to shift custody of children when a psychiatrist finds a custodial parent alienating the kids from the other parent. But some experts say those legal precedents were limited to extreme cases.

"There's a whole panoply of things the judge could have done," said veteran divorce lawyer Raoul Felder. "She could have said, 'Let's revisit it in six months' or she could have given him lots of visitation."
 

If Mommy Cries, It's Goodbye
Judge Orders Stiff Upper Lip During Phone Calls with Twins

June 3, 2004
 
Bridget Marks sits in her daughters' empty bedroom.

Bridget Marks can hardly stop crying in the aching loneliness of her upper East Side apartment.

Her 4-year-old twin daughters, Amber and Scarlett, are gone with their toys and clothes.

Their beds were empty again yesterday, the second night they were gone. Marks stared at their photos and cried again when she looked at the videotape of their recent kindergarten graduation.

But she cannot cry when she gets to talk on the phone with them during conference calls supervised and monitored by a social worker who will be paid $150 an hour to listen in.

"If I do, they'll terminate the call," said Marks, referring to Family Court Judge Arlene Goldberg's instructions on how she must behave during any supervised contact with her children.

Goldberg made that decision yesterday, according to Marks, who added, "If I show any emotion, a supervisor will hang up; if I do anything that a supervisor thinks will upset the children, that's it; if the girls ask if they can come home, I'm not allowed to speak about it."

Marks did not get to talk to them yesterday.

"I don't know where they are, if they're scared, if they're hungry, if they're lonely," said Marks. No schedule for phone calls or visitation has been arranged or set by the judge.

"It's hard for me to be in the apartment without their laughter, without their chatter," she said. "I didn't sleep at all Tuesday night."

Marks, 38, a former Playboy model and actress, lost custody of her daughters to her one-time lover, John Aylsworth, a wealthy 54-year-old casino president. He has four children with Karen Aylsworth, his wife of 34 years, and grandchildren as well.

The twins were born out of Aylsworth's extramarital affair with Marks.

But Goldberg awarded Aylsworth and his wife custody on the grounds that Marks alienated the girls against their natural father and made false accusations that he sexually abused them. Aylsworth's wife testified in court that she will gladly rear her husband's love children.

Goldberg declined comment on the case yesterday.

But one top legal expert familiar with the case said the judge felt she had little choice.

"It was difficult, but the mother was not fostering a healthy relationship with [Aylsworth]," said the expert who declined to be named.

David Bookstaver, spokesman for the Office of Court Administration said, "Judges are bound by appellate court rulings and the appellate courts have made it very clear, in this state, that if there's a finding of parental alienation, the remedy is removal of the children."

Marks has vowed to fight on.

On Monday, she will ask a federal court judge to stay Goldberg's decision pending a hearing on various constitutional and civil rights issues.

"Because Judge Goldberg's decision is not final, we can't appeal it," said Mark's attorney Tom Shanahan.

"It violates due process to say I'm taking your children away but you can't appeal it," he said.

In order to keep custody, Aylsworth, who lives in Malibu, Calif., and works in St. Louis, must live in New York with his family. As far as Marks knows, he has not bought a home here.

"I wish I knew where Amber and Scarlett are," Marks said last night. "I hope they're all right."

                 Jurist Singularly Unsensational till Now

By Barbara Ross and William Sherman
New York Daily News
June 3, 2004

Until recently, Family Court Judge Arlene Goldberg had a reputation for being a diligent jurist who plays it strictly by the book, carefully following the rule of law.

But that was before she stripped Bridget Marks of custody of her twins, a controversial ruling that has triggered outrage and national debate.

"It wasn't easy for the judge to make this decision, but believe me, she agonized over it," said an associate, who declined to be identified. "She looked at all the evidence and previous rulings and appellate court decisions."

Colleagues say that's typical of Goldberg, mostly known in legal circles for having a sharp legal mind and for being careful.

In her 13 years on the bench, the first 111/2 years in Criminal Court before being switched to Family Court, there is no record of her rulings being reversed on appeal.

The 54-year-old judge, who is single and lives on the upper East Side, worked her way up through the legal system after graduating from Hunter College and the Chicago-Kent College of Law.

From 1976 to 1986, she worked as a Legal Aid Society defense lawyer, and then clerked for Acting Supreme Court Justice Carol Berkman.

In 1991, then-Mayor David Dinkins appointed the fellow Democrat to the bench at Manhattan Criminal Court. There she handled bail applications, pretrial defense and prosecution motions and was known as a workaholic, able to move cases along swiftly, pressing lawyers to meet deadlines.

Except for a stint in a special narcotics part, she did not preside over trials.

But many big names appeared before her. She set bail for Tyco International CEO Dennis Kozlowski; issued a warrant for the arrest of Christopher Culkin, Macaulay Culkin's father, and dismissed a claim by three teenagers that former Nets basketball star Derrick Coleman assaulted them at a bar.

Monitors for Fund for Modern Courts, which reviews judges' conduct, praised her as patient, fair, thorough and firm.

In a mostly positive review, some monitors did note that her courtroom was "not very orderly."

In December 2002, she was transferred to Family Court to help handle that court's increasing caseload.
 

Double Dispair
Heartbroken Mom Screams 'I Love You' and Runs After
Car as Fat-cat Father Takes Custody of 4-Year-Old Twins

By: Bob Port
New York Daily News
June 2, 2004

 

Bridget Marks girds for parting from Amber and Scarlet.
One of the twins screams for her mom as she’s put into dad’s car.
President Casino honcho John Aylsworth is the twins' biological father.
Marks spews at her former lover, then follows car carrying girls away.

Little twin girls in their Sunday best, clutching their mother's hands as tears filled their eyes, were handed over into the custody of their father yesterday in a scene marked by anger and shouting.

It was gut-wrenching for anyone who watched.

Their mother, Bridget Marks, crying, chased after the father's car as it slowly pulled into traffic. "I love you, I love you," she called to her daughters, who watched helplessly from the car.

"There's the coward," Marks' mother shouted as casino bigwig John Aylsworth tried to go unnoticed. "You evil man," she screamed at the twins' father.

"You are evil!" she yelled. "How could you do this?"

A social worker pulled and twisted one child's arm. Then, when Aylsworth neglected to buckle up the girls after the child safety seats in his car were too small, Marks screamed at him, "I'll sue you!"

The spectacle, at midday on the upper East Side, brought grimaces of shock and sadness to the faces of passersby.

Marks, 38, sobbed uncontrollably as it ended. She raced into her apartment building on Third Ave. as a phalanx of news crews pursued.

So went the transfer of custody of two 4-year-old twin girls from Marks, a former B-movie actress and now a romance novelist, to Aylsworth, 54, the chief operating officer of President Casino Inc.

Aylsworth stood stoically, ignoring all questions. His wife, Karen, also refused to speak.

For the twins, Amber and Scarlet Aylsworth, it was nightmarish day. They begged and pleaded to stay with their mother.

Marks, outraged by New York's system of custody law, has gone public in her battle with Aylsworth. "This is outrageous," she said yesterday. "I can't believe this is happening."

Last month, Manhattan Family Court Judge Arlene Goldberg ordered Marks to hand over her daughters to Aylsworth. The judge, relying on New York's history of parental alienation case law, ruled that Marks despises Aylsworth so much she cannot be trusted to foster a father-daughter relationship.

New York law requires the twins, despite the temporary trauma they will endure, to be placed with their father, the judge ruled.

The twins were born to Marks after she began an affair with the married Aylsworth in 1998. When Marks became pregnant, Aylsworth and his wife pressured her to have an abortion. She refused, rearing the girls on her own.

Marks ended the relationship in late 2002 and Aylsworth filed for visitation rights. When she accused him of sexually molesting their daughters, he upped his claim to custody and won when the judge concluded that Marks had coached the kids to implicate their father.

The case has tapped a well of dissatisfaction with divorce and custody courts that runs deep in New York City.

The Daily News reported on Marks' case in late March. It has since gained national attention; Marks appeared on ABC's "Good Morning America" and Court TV yesterday.

Lawyers for Marks were unsuccessful in getting an emergency restraining order. Manhattan Federal Judge Kimba Wood, on duty to hear emergency requests, scheduled a hearing for Monday before Federal Judge George Daniels.

Tom Shanahan, Marks' attorney, said Wood ruled that immediate action was not necessary. "A one-week vacation for the girls cannot constitute irreparable harm," he said.

"The upside is there will be a hearing in a week," Shanahan said. "My client will be here, her supporters will be here. The child psychiatrist will be here. We can make our argument then."

Marks is suing Aylsworth, the State of New York, its court system and Judge Goldberg in federal court. She also sued Lawyers for Children Inc., a child advocacy law firm appointed to represent her twins, and Dr. Stephen Billick, a court-appointed psychiatrist who recommended she lose custody.

The suit claims violations of civil rights, due process and equal protection. It seeks the appointment of a special master to investigate the conduct of the judge and the other defendants.

A sworn statement from Celia Blumental, a therapist for the two girls for four months in 2003, contends that irreparable harm will occur to the twins if Goldberg's order is not stopped.

"I don't understand the